6 years ago
11.04.2009
..The Impossible Decision..
So, how you do make the impossible decision?
Is there really such a thing? Or does is just seem impossible sometimes?
What's my impossible decision?
Extended Family OR Financial Security
For me, it's a tough one.
I am family! That's pretty simple. I just am family! I love being around family. I love the closeness of my family. I love the support of family. I love family parties. I love family relationships. I love family chaos - it means people are real. I LOVE MY FAMILY!
I also want to be secure in my financial future, which in this economy, is not so easy to come by anymore. I want my husband to be in a position to feel proud as a provider, that he is doing the best he can. I don't want him to have to work forever; which means we need to make enough money to build up some sort of retirement. I would love for him to enjoy what he does and not have to complete manual labor for the rest of his days. It's hard on a guys body.
Logically, the decision seems easy.
Emotionally, the decision is breaking my heart.
How would you choose?
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it's tough. I went through this with our move up north. Family is great, so is financial stability (plus for chillens, consistancy is even better). Ultimately it was a blessing in disguise to move closer to family. We found out 3-4 months after we left the company Jaron worked for almost bellied up (close they let everyone but family go) and the hospital I worked for re arranged staff... All in all, it was a better move for us. Who knows... would such a blessing be in store for your family? I would hope, I miss you.
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